'I never intended to take someone else’s pet': Cat lover helps a neglected neighborhood cat, but his owners accuse them of stealing him

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  • Cat lying on an outside porch in the sun.

  • I know the title sounds bad, but hear me out. About 8 months ago, this silly cat started hanging around my apartment almost every day. At

  • first I assumed he was just an outdoor cat looking for attention, so I'd pet him for a few minutes and he'd leave.

  • After a while I noticed he was always incredibly hungry. He'd eat like he hadn't seen food in days, and his fur looked dirty and matted. He also had a small

  • wound on one of his ears that never seemed to get treated. Eventually he started waiting outside my door every morning and sleeping on my patio at night. During a week of heavy

  • rain, I let him inside because he was soaked and shivering. He immediately curled up on my couch and slept for hours. A few days later I asked around

  • Cat curled up on a white couch with its paws crossed.

    Street cat curled up on rescuer's couch to sleep, as illustrated by a model. 

  • and found out he belonged to someone a couple of buildings over. I went to talk to them, and they basically said, "Yeah, he comes and goes. Cats are independent."

  • I mentioned that he seemed underweight and had an untreated wound. They shrugged and said he was "fine."

  • Over the next month, the cat spent more and more time at my place. I took him to the vet, got his ear treated, and found out he was underweight. I paid for everything because I felt bad for him.

  • Now he spends almost every day with me and only occasionally wanders back to their house. The neighbours have started joking that I "stole their cat," but a

  • couple of other neighbours have actually said they never seemed to take care of him in the first place.

  • I never intended to take someone else's pet. I just didn't feel right ignoring an animal that looked neglected. So... was I wrong?

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  • omar4nsari If they said "cats are independent" then that seems to imply they're not bothered, but it might be worth formalising. Someone turning back on a spoken agreements or understanding unfortunately leaves you in an ambiguous state.

  • splashbands Have you considered asking the "owner" if it's alright for you to keep the cat or even buy off them? Sounds like you've already adopted the cat and started taking better care of it than they have. Maybe ask them so it becomes official and off your conscience as thievery

  • If an owner tells you they're okay with you taking care of their cat, it's always smart to get that in writing. Even a quick text message can save everyone a lot of confusion later on. Memories change, neighbors talk, and misunderstandings happen. Having something in writing keeps expectations clear and makes it easier to focus on what actually matters: making sure the cat gets the care it needs.

  • ClauDineASaur The cat distribution gods. have spoken. What's the little tykes name then?

  • LeftyCards It is never wrong to help neglected animal.

  • sunshinesdarkangel This is how I got my orange cat. He just moved in. His "owners" the next street over never once looked for him, asked around, or put up a poster. I guess he was "independent" enough to decide which house he belongs to

  • Islaya00 Sounds like they "independently" chose your to be their human. Congrats on your new baby.

  • sendmekittypix GET HIM CHIPPED. Like yesterday. Thank you for saving the little guy

  • This_Miaou You didn't steal that baby. HE CAME TO YOU FOR HELP.

  • It really sounds like this cat made his choice. Day after day, he kept coming back to the same apartment, waited by the same door, and stayed as long as he could. Cats are pretty good at deciding where they feel safe and comfortable, and this little guy seemed to have his mind made up. You didn't chase him down or lure him away. He simply found the place where he felt cared for, and he kept choosing it over and over again.

  • warmlobster Cats ARE independent, but if you're their primary care taker then it's your responsibility to take care of them. Feeding them when they're hungry, treating them when they're sick, and keeping them warm when they're cold.

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  • The cat made his choice long before anyone else started debating it. You didn't go looking for someone else's pet. He kept showing up hungry, sleeping on your patio, and choosing your front door day after day. At a certain point, ignoring him would've felt a whole lot worse than helping him. If a cat keeps coming back because it feels safe with you, that's not something you forced. It's something the cat decided all on its own.

  • IrelandAutism13 You are absolutely morally in the right, and it's less you stole the cat than the cat ran away and chose you as his ew human.

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