Gwyneth Paltrow Details the Evolution of Relationship With Her Kids

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Gwyneth Paltrow is filled with glee now that her kids have grown up.

The Oscar winner detailed the dynamic she has with her and ex-husband Chris Martin’s kids Apple Martin, 20, and Moses Martin, 19, now that they’re both “incredible adults.”

“I'm really enjoying this phase,” Gwyneth exclusively told E! News in an interview airing tonight, May 12, at 11 p.m. “I love the adult children that I have. They're so funny and fun to be with.” 

Noting that her kids are in college, the 52-year-old added, “It's a little hard that they're not under my roof. I miss them, but it's also really thrilling to see these incredible adults.”

But as her children grow up, Gwyneth—who is also stepmom to husband Brad Falchuk’s kids Isabella, 19, and Brody, 18—shared that her Apple and Moses have expressed interest in following in her and Chris’ footsteps to pursue careers in entertainment. 

“They are definitely artist souls,” she continued. “I do think that [a] mix of structure and art is really coming through in who they are now. They're both academic, and yet they have these beautiful free spirits and I think they will pursue art, which I think is wonderful.”

In terms of her own spirit, the Iron Man actress—who has partnered with Genesis House in New York City to launch the immersive nature experience “The Forest Within”—reflected on the lessons she learned while raising Apple and Moses. 

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“Parenting is a series of shifting and a series of letting go and a series of having to be agile,” Gwyneth explained. “I felt like every time I had one idea of parenting like, ‘Oh, I'm comfortable with this now,’ then they'd be out of diapers or they go into the next phase. There has to be an agility around how you approach it.”

One of the biggest lessons she has learned in her role as a mom, though, is the value of maintaining your own identity.

“I learned it's important, as a woman, not to totally forget or abandon yourself when you become a mother,” she shared. “It's so all-encompassing and so beautiful to have children and to surrender to that.”

The Shakespeare in Love actress added, “It’s important to remember that you have an inner life and you have your own values and priorities because they do go off. It's hard to imagine when they're little that they will, but they do. It's important to have built that relationship with yourself along the way.”

Read on for a look back at Gwyneth’s cutest pics with her and Chris’ kids.

—Reporting by Emily Curl 

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Sweet Moments

Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin took their daughter Apple Martin and son Moses Martin to the Museum of Ice Cream in 2017.

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Making Memories

The former couple reunited for Apple's high school graduation in June 2022.

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Summer Fun

The Goop founder shared this pic with Apple and Moses in July 2024.

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Blended Family

Gwyneth's husband Brad Falchuk posed next to Chris and Apple in this heartwarming blended family portrait.

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Adventure of a Lifetime

Gwyneth rang in Chris' 40th bithday in 2017 with this photo of their family of four, calling the singer the "best daddy in the world."

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Ho Ho Happy

The Goop founder and Moses enjoyed a Christmas morning walk on the beach in December 2023.

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Feeling Festive

"California Christmas," Gwyneth captioned this December 2023 snapshot.

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Three Generations

Gwyneth's mom Blythe Danner joined the family for a beach vacation.

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Lasting Legacy

The Shakespeare in Love star honored her late father Bruce Paltrow by bringing her children to visit his grave on Thanksgiving 2020.

"Life has incredible highs and lows," she wrote on Instagram. "Perhaps feeling it all at the same time is the art."

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Forever Family

To celebrate Chris' birthday in 2018, Gwyneth shared this adorable family photo alongside the caption: "Thank you for giving me these two."

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Mom Life

Gwyneth had double the reasons to celebrate on Mother's Day 2023, when her daughter's birthday also coincided with the holiday.

"Happy Birthday my angel," she wrote on Instagram. "Thank you for sharing your birthday this year with Mother’s Day, a fitting conjugation, a double celebration of you and what you have given to me- the GIFT of being your mom. I love you so deeply and wholly, it defies articulation."

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Sunny Days Ahead

"Summer 2022, you brought it all unsparingly," the Oscar winner caption this photo of the trio. "Elation, adventure, transition, joy and heartbreak alike. Thank you for your reminders, connections and deepenings."

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Family Meal

Gwyneth celebrated Easter 2024 with her kids in Nashville.

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Something Just Like This

Chris accompanied Moses on the piano during an impromptu backyard concert.

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X&Y

The Coldplay frontman held his daughter's hand during a boating trip.

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Twinsies

The mother-daughter duo rocked matching boots in August 2023.

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Mama's Boy

"Happy 17th birthday to the boy that fills my soul up every time I look at him," Gwyneth wrote on Instagram April 2023. "You keep us all laughing with your perfect impressions and you inspire us with your harmonies. I deeply adore you more than you could ever imagine!"

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Paradise

Chris snuggled up with his kids in this Father's Day 2019 snapshot posted by Gwyneth.

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Blondes Have More Fun

Gwyneth and Apple snapped a silly selfie during a mother-daughter day out.

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Beach Buds

The Iron Man actress kicked back with her kids during a tropical getaway.

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Thankful

"Here is to reunions, togetherness, family, and love love love," Gwyneth wrote in November 2016. "Happy thanksgiving eve, everyone."

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Like Daughter, Like Mom

For National Daughter Day in September 2021, Gwyneth captioned this selfie with Apple: "Oh man do I love you."

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Ride or Die

Gwyneth snapped a car selfie with Moses for National Son Day in September 2021, writing in the caprion, "Total heart melter."

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His Universe

Chris and Moses twinned in this adorable father-and-son snap from 2017.

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Viva la Vida

"Thank you to my two beauties for the best morning, and for my entire life," Gwyneth wrote on Mother's Day 2019. "I love you both so much."

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In Their Place

Chris and Apple showed off their jumping skills.

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When in Spain

Gwyneth and her children visited Barcelona in May 2016.

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Hymn for the Weekend

Appled watched her dad perform from backstage during Coldplay's 2016 tour.

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Mini Me

The mother-daughter duo cuddled up in this throwback photo.

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Enchanted

Gwyneth introduced her son to Taylor Swift in 2015, quipping on Instagram, "Thanks for giving me and my little man our best date night ever."

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