Former JFK Jr. Staffer Reacts to Sarah Pidgeon’s Portrayal of Carolyn Bessette in 'Love Story'
In FX's Love Story, Carolyn Bessette stresses over the possibility that it might not work out with John F. Kennedy Jr. and she'll "forever be known as JFK Jr.'s ex."
That was less of a concern for Daryl Hannah, who was one of Hollywood's hottest actresses by the time she started dating the political scion in 1988. And despite the intense fascination with their coupling at the time—and the renewed interest now, thanks to the Ryan Murphy-produced Love Story: John F. Kennedy Jr. & Carolyn Bessette—it didn't seem to be much of an issue after they finally went their separate ways in 1994.
Yes, that's a couple of years after John met Carolyn, meaning Daryl (who's played by Dree Hemingway, daughter of Mariel Hemingway and great-granddaughter of Ernest Hemingway) mainly serves as an obstacle to the main event in the series.
While the production didn't reach out to Daryl to further inform the inspired-by-true-events story, producer Nina Jacobson told Gold Derby, "We always try to come from a place of compassion. Given how much we're rooting for John and Carolyn, Daryl Hannah occupies a space where she's an adversary to what you want narratively in the story."
Daryl, however, was a movie star, and therefore—unlike Carolyn, a sales associate for Calvin Klein specializing in celebrity clientele when she met John—wasn't as fazed by paparazzi or tabloid interest in her love life.
Despite how she comes off as John's obvious mismatch, "we still try to really show respect to the fact that she does have a fluency with this world that Carolyn doesn't have," Nina explained. "She is able to swim in his tank in a way that is much more difficult for Carolyn."
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Still, dating JFK Jr. did come with a whole new level of attention.
"It’s getting really annoying. I get asked about it all the time,” Daryl told Entertainment Weekly in 1993. “This morning, I call up my plumber, and even he asks me. Oh, brother, I’m just trying to get my pipes fixed. Why can’t people talk about something else?”
The now 65-year-old star of Splash and Roxanne first crossed paths with John in the 1970s when they were teenagers on respective family vacations on the Caribbean island of Saint Martin. They then spent most of the 1980s involved with other people, John dating—to name one of his many girlfriends—Christina Haag while Daryl was living with musician Jackson Browne.
But the pair reconnected at the 1988 New York wedding of John's aunt Lee Radziwill and her third husband, filmmaker Herbert Ross, who had just directed Daryl in Steel Magnolias.
Not long after People named him Sexiest Man Alive that September, John and Daryl were fixed up by her stepfather, producer and Democratic Party donor Jerrold Wexler. They were off and on for the next six years while still entangled with others. In October 1992, John flew to California to support Daryl after she and Jackson broke up, then took her back to New York with him.
Meanwhile, he had started dating Carolyn over the summer and, while there were other reasons as to why their love story initially fizzled, she was further put off by headlines that John and Daryl's romance was back on.
During the years they dated, one of the rumored sticking points in their relationship was how Jacqueline Kennedy supposedly felt—i.e. not great—about her son dating the actress.
"It's just not true," Daryl said in 2004 on The Howard Stern Show of stories that she and Jackie didn't get along, making an extremely rare comment about that period of her life. "People just don't know necessarily why we broke up, so people speculate, and then, I guess, that's the only kind of idea they could come up with. And it gets repeated over and over, and then it becomes accepted as truth. It has no bearing on reality whatsoever."
She added, "I had a really great relationship with her. I won't go into some of the more personal details."
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As for her connection with John, she has also left that open to interpretation, never divulging details about their time together.
Daryl was "awesome," Amelia Barlow, a daughter of John's friend John Perry Barlow, recalled in RoseMarie Terenzio and Liz McNeil's 2024 book JFK Jr.: An Intimate Oral History. And the Wall Street actress' relationship with John "felt fantastical, adventurous. It felt somewhat young and a little bit maybe naive or immature, compared to his relationship with Carolyn."
Not long before Jackie died in May 1994, Daryl's dog was fatally hit by a car on John's watch in New York, and he flew to L.A. to bring her the pup's ashes. Friend Steve Gillon said in the oral history that John was "deeply resentful that Daryl dragged him out there to attend a funeral for her dog when his mother was dying of cancer."
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Carole Radziwill said, per the book, that she took Daryl shopping to buy "a proper funeral dress" to attend Jackie's memorial service. "I could see it was over. John could barely look at her. I think she knew, too."
John told friends a month after his mother died that he and Daryl "should have been over long ago," according to J. Randy Taraborrelli's 2019 book The Kennedy Heirs: John, Caroline, and the New Generation.
Carole said that, by the time she married John's cousin Anthony Radziwill in August 1994, he "had quietly rekindled his romance with Carolyn.
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But while she had been involved in one of the most chronicled romances of its day, Daryl moved on with her life. She did not attend John and Carolyn's funeral in 1999 or issue any statement, nor has she ever uttered a cross word in public about her ex.
Eventually she became as known for her environmental activism as she was for acting. The Kill Bill alum famously talked up alternative fuels after having her 1983 Chevy El Camino converted to biodiesel, noting that her car frequently smelled like donuts or French fries because it ran on vegetable oil.
Daryl's parents broke up when she was 7, she told The Times in 2005, and "from that day I started realizing that the world functions differently from how I was taught in Sunday school and I wanted to be more in sync with it. I have always felt there must be ways to live in harmony with nature without having to live a sacrificial existence. You shouldn’t have to be too spartan to do it.”
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She was also arrested in 2011 and 2013, both times in Washington, D.C., during protests against the construction of the Keystone XL pipeline.
In 2017, Daryl was one of numerous women who accused Harvey Weinstein of sexual misconduct, telling the New Yorker's Ronan Farrow that her career "experienced instant repercussions" after she told people about her alleged experiences with the producer in the mid-2000s.
"I think that it doesn’t matter if you’re a well-known actress, it doesn’t matter if you’re 20 or if you’re 40, it doesn’t matter if you report or if you don’t, because we are not believed," Daryl said. "We are more than not believed—we are berated and criticized and blamed."
She was "a private person, with a rule of speaking to the press only for professional reasons," the actress explained. But she wanted to tell her story because she felt "a moral obligation to support the women who have suffered much more egregious transgressions."
Never one to say much about her love life, Daryl's boyfriends after JFK Jr. included Val Kilmer (“Lord knows I’ve suffered heartache," the late actor wrote in his 2020 memoir I'm Your Huckleberry. "But Daryl was by far the most painful of all") and then she married Neil Young in 2018. It was her first trip down the aisle and his third.
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Among their various collaborations, she was nominated for a Best Musical Film Grammy in 2023 as director of the documentary A Band a Brotherhood a Barn, about her husband and his band Crazy Horse.
She also directed the recent concert documentary Coastal, telling the Telluride Times in April 2025, “It's just such a beautiful openness that he has in those moments that you rarely see from Neil. I wanted to highlight Neil’s authenticity, openness and vulnerability as a person, musician, and performer."
When Daryl first directed the now-80-year-old in the 2018 Netflix film Paradox, Neil told The Independent of his wife, "I didn’t worry about what she was doing because I knew it was going to be good. I don’t know how many people know how brilliant she is, probably more of them are concerned about what she looks like than what’s going on in her mind.”
See more of what Love Story: John F. Kennedy Jr. & Carolyn Bessette got right—and what it made up—about JFK Jr.'s relationship with Daryl and much more:
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Carolyn Bessette Impresses Calvin Klein With Her Style Suggestions for Annette Bening
In Love Story: John F. Kennedy Jr. & Carolyn Bessette, Carolyn (Sarah Pidgeon) suggests that Annette Bening (Megan Channell) wear a Calvin Klein suit to the Bugsy premiere, rather than the dress the designer himself selected for the actress.
While it's unclear whether she styled that particular look for the future Mrs. Warren Beatty, according to a 1996 New York Times article, Carolyn was the go-to saleswoman for Calvin Klein's celebrity clientele, including Annette, Diane Sawyer and Blaire Trump.
"She would guide them through the collection, tell them what looked good on them, and advise them on how to put it all together," Paul Wilmott, then Calvin Klein's VP of public relations, told the paper. "It was a wonderful thing. She sold millions of dollars of clothes over a period of time."
Another Love Story scene illustrating Carolyn's savvy has the eventual PR director encouraging Calvin (Alessandro Nivola) to hire Kate Moss for a campaign.
And Carolyn really was an early champion of Moss, who helped define the Calvin Klein brand in the 1990s.
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Carolyn and John First Lay Eyes on Each Other at a Gala
As it unfolds in Love Story, Calvin introduces Carolyn and John at a charity gala in 1992 and sparks fly, though Carolyn refuses to give him her phone number, pointing out he knows where he works.
"He was just bored," Carolyn tells her friends at a nightclub afterward as her sometimes-lover Michael Bergin (Noah Fearnley)—dubbed "sexy doorman" by her pals—walks in.
Soon enough, John shows up unexpectedly at Calvin Klein and asks for a private fitting with Carolyn. He asks her to dinner and, once he leaves, her colleagues go nuts.
In reality, according to Elizabeth Beller's 2024 book Once Upon a Time: The Captivating Life of Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy, they first met in the spring of 1992 when John came into Calvin Klein for a VIP fitting (where her colleagues probably did go nuts). He then invited her to sit at his table at a gala, Carolyn's friend MJ Bettenhausen told Beller. But when Carolyn thought that another woman at the table was John's date, she got annoyed and declined his invitation to join him at an after-party.
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Was Carolyn Seeing Someone Else When She Met John?
Carolyn did casually date Michael, a model who once worked as a hotel doorman, but not until the fall of 1992 and they were "much more off than on," per Beller's book.
And Bergin's claim in his 2004 book The Other Man that he continued having a sexual relationship with Carolyn, not just after she met John but until she died, was, Beller wrote, "considered questionable by many of Carolyn's friends."
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Was JFK Jr. Super Late to His First Dinner Date With Carolyn?
In Love Story, Carolyn waits 20 minutes at an Indian restaurant for John and is leaving when he shows up on his bicycle.
Which he leaves unlocked, only to come out of their hours-long date to find it's been stolen. So, he gets to walk Carolyn home.
"I thought I had more time," he said as they arrive at her building's front door. She asks, "More time for what?" and they kiss. He asks if he'll see her again and she assures him, "I had a nice time tonight" before calling it an evening.
IRL, these two had a first date somewhere, and it's perfectly conceivable that John rode his bike and was late, but otherwise this two-kindred-spirits-bonding-over-beers tableau was created for the series.
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Daryl Hannah Shows Up at John's Loft After His First Date With Carolyn
Daryl Hannah (Dree Hemingway), John's on-again-off-again girlfriend, is at his loft when he comes home after he was just rhapsodizing to his cousin and best friend Anthony Radziwill (Erich Bergen) about how all he wants to do is call Carolyn.
Soon, he's bringing Daryl to cousin Edward Kennedy Jr.'s wedding in October 1993, much to his mother Jacqueline Kennedy's disapproval (poured on here for effect, but based in reality), and Carolyn finds out from a tabloid cover that her seemingly eager suitor is back on with his movie star ex.
Meanwhile, John has been sending Carolyn flowers, eventually telling her when they bump into each other at another event that he "can't seem to function" knowing that she hated him. To which she replies, "I don't know you well enough to hate you."
The surprise rendezvous was a dramatic way for Love Story to introduce the Splash star, but producers didn't seek input from Daryl, who's been married to Neil Young since 2018.
"We want to find these characters from the inside out," producer Nina Jacobson told Gold Derby, "and it's hard to serve a bunch of agendas when you [go] to the real people. So we tend not to do that except in rare cases."
In Daryl's case, she's "an adversary to what you want narratively in the story," Jacobson explained, but "we still try to really show respect to the fact that she does have a fluency with this [celebrity] world that Carolyn doesn't have."
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What Really Happened to Dary Hannah's Dog?
In the series, John coming home to find Daryl entertaining a bunch of her kooky friends is a sign that the end is nigh. She finally leaves him, challenging him to figure out what he really wants.
Daryl says she'll be back for her dog Hank. Instead, John is asked for an autograph while walking him, and he loses the leash and Hank is fatally hit by a cab. John then flies to L.A. to bring Daryl her beloved pet's ashes.
True story: John's friend Sasha Chermayeff said his pal was walking Hank in Central Park when the dog got off leash and was hit by a car in May 1994, per RoseMarie Terenzio and Liz McNeil 2024 book, JFK Jr.: An Intimate Oral Biography.
"So, he goes out there [to L.A.] to bury the dog," friend Steven Gillon said in the book. "And while he's out there, his mom has a dramatic turn for the worse. He was deeply resentful that Daryl dragged him out there to attend a funeral for her dog when his mother was dying of cancer."
In Love Story, mom Jackie (Naomi Watts) leaves a message for John, seemingly while he's on the plane, before collapsing in her apartment. That was conceived for effect, but it's meant to hammer home how sick the former first lady was after being diagnosed with non-Hodgkins lymphoma in December 1993. She died on May 19, 1994.
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What Was the Actual Timeline of John and Carolyn's Relationship?
John and Carolyn didn't see each other after the gala that went wrong until May 18, 1992, at a fundraiser.
Then they hit it off and dated throughout the summer before they cooled off for almost two years, according to Beller's book. Only after Jackie's death did they get together for good.
"In reality, they were on again, off again, a little bit more than we had time to do in the show," executive producer Brad Simpson told USA Today. "But we needed to jump ahead, and we didn't feel like the audience wanted to see the stop and starts of their romance."
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JFK Jr. Forgets His Keys
When he brings Carolyn home to his loft for the first time, John realizes he forgot his keys.
While that's a made-for-TV moment, John IRL could be careless and was prone to losing his keys and wallet—an attribute that later made Carolyn reluctant to fly with him alone when he got his pilot's license.
In addition to that bit of foreshadowing, when John invites Carolyn to a party at his sister Caroline Kennedy Schlossberg's house, he doesn't tell his date it's actually a sit-down dinner for Caroline's birthday.
When she tells Carolyn not to worry, that John does stuff like that all the time, Caroline (Grace Gummer) clarifies, "I just mean that he's forgetful, not that he's bringing women unannounced."
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Carolyn Meets Caroline for the First Time on Her Birthday
John really did bring Carolyn to meet his sister on her 37th birthday on Nov. 27, 1994, though the gathering at Caroline's Park Avenue apartment is described as a party, rather than a dinner, in Carole Radziwill's memoir What Remains.
And the Real Housewives alum, who was there with Anthony and thrilled to see Carolyn, wrote that her friend walked "into this guarded room radiant and stubbornly original. Impulsively affectionate."
Caroline hugged John and told Carolyn, "So nice to meet you," Carole recalled. "Her friends smile politely and then shift their focus to John."
According to Beller's Once Upon a Time, those who thought Carolyn and Caroline disliked each other at first sight had the wrong idea. An acquaintance who saw them lunching said, "The two women seemed to really enjoy each other, and the conversation flowed, peppered with laughter here and there."
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John Gets an Anonymous Note Claiming Carolyn Is Bad News
After a game of touch football in the park with his buddies, John finds a handwritten letter in his gym bag claiming that Carolyn, among other things, finagled a meeting with him through her boss Calvin Klein because she was trying to "land" him. When she comes over later, John's fuming. Appalled that he was willing to believe any of it, she walks out.
Seemingly days later, he shows up at her apartment and declares himself "an idiot." Their heart-to-heart leads to him telling her he loves her for the first time.
John really did get such a letter detailing Carolyn's alleged hard-partying ways and busy personal life, per Beller, but it was earlier in their relationship. According to her book, after they dated in the summer of 1992, John unceremoniously broke it off after getting the letter, after which Carolyn resisted his efforts to apologize for more than a year.
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Carolyn Says She Needs to Think About It When John Proposes
John proposes to Carolyn in a row boat after a trip to Hyannis Port, where she has just met his extended family—including his aunt, "undisputed matriarch" Ethel Kennedy (Jessica Harper)—for the first time.
But Carolyn says she needs to think about it, that there's "a lot of big stuff" they have to discuss first.
According to Terenzio, John popped the question on a boat during a jaunt to Martha's Vineyard over Fourth of July weekend in 1995, telling Carolyn, "Fishing is so much better with a partner."
And he did offer up a diamond and sapphire eternity band, but while in the show JFK Jr. says it used to belong to his mother, in real life John commissioned Jackie's longtime partner Maurice Tempelsman to design a ring that looked like his late mom's emerald and sapphire "swimming ring." (IRL he gave Carolyn both rings, per Terenzio.)
A close friend of JFK Jr. told People in 2017 that Carolyn made John wait about three weeks for an answer. Gillon wrote in his 2019 book American Prince that Carolyn didn't say yes but wore the ring and told friends they planned to marry. But Terenzio recounted in her oral history that Carolyn called afterward and told her they got engaged during the holiday weekend.
In either case, the couple were engaged for months before their infamous 1996 fight in Washington Square Park.
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Calvin Klein's Marriage to Kelly Klein Is in Decline
Carolyn had the ear of her boss Calvin Klein, but she was also close friends with his second wife, photographer Kelly Klein.
In Love Story, Kelly (Leila George) pushes back when Calvin says--in the wake of a (real) New York Post cover blaring, "JFK JR. POPS THE QUESTION"--that Carolyn can't work for him anymore "if her personal life is going to become a distraction."
Kelly fires back, "All due respect, you're the last person to be lecturing anyone on discretion," to which Calvin says, "From the beginning you knew what you were signing up for."
The designer then asks Kelly to accompany her to a gala that night, "one last time," indicating they're splitting up.
IRL, Calvin and Kelly announced their separation in August 1996, saying in a statement at the time, per columnist Liz Smith, “We are still the best of friends. We have made a decision to live apart. We are respectful of one another. We hope to work out any issues between ourselves.” They finalized their divorce in 2006.
Now 83, Calvin has been in a relationship with model Kevin Baker, who's 46 years his junior, for 10 years.
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Carolyn Does Not Attend the 1995 Launch of George
In Love Story, Carolyn doesn't attend John's press conference announcing the launch of George magazine, at which he unveils the publication's first cover featuring Cindy Crawford dressed as sexy George Washington.
She watches on TV from home, having reluctantly agreed that John didn't have a choice other than to issue a denial that he proposed, lest the rumors that she had left him hanging overshadow the George news.
Carolyn really did steer clear of the Sept. 7, 1995, launch. Terenzio—tasked with issuing a statement denying John was engaged, after a pic of Carolyn's ring sparked speculation—wrote that John and his partner Michael Berman thought her presence would be "too distracting" and "she wasn't that upset about that."
But John's longtime friend Sasha Chermayeff noted in the oral history that she thought at the time "the public denial of the engagement bothered [Carolyn] so much...That was the first sign of Okay, this is what life with him is going to be about."
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The Truth About JFK Jr. and Carolyn's Fight in the Park
Episode five ends with Carolyn tearfully accepting John's proposal after they have an explosive argument while they're out with their dog.
Thanks to copious coverage of the couple's Feb. 25, 1996, blow-up, many aspects of the Love Story fight—John seeming to wrest Carolyn's engagement ring off her finger, John in tears as he sits on a curb, John yelling at Carolyn as she grabs the dog's leash, "You've got my ring, you're not getting my dog!"—are ripped right from the headlines.
But the series features them fighting over John's proposal denial—"None of this would have happened," he shouts, "if you'd accepted my proposal in the first place like a normal f--king person!"—when in reality they'd been engaged for about five months. (In the show, Carolyn tries on the ring and agrees to wear it when they're alone, but has not yet said yes to marrying him before the fight.)
In her oral history, Terenzio recalled that the couple fought over John "being taken advantage of by his friends."
They had gone to a wedding where they were seated next to a New York Times reporter covering the event for the "Vows" column, and "Carolyn thought it was a bulls--t thing to do to your friend," Terenzio wrote. She noted that John's Carolyn felt bad about the fight afterward, "but she was also angry at John because she felt she was trying to protect him, not wanting him to be taken advantage of."

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