'To my surprise, he didn’t run': Big cat new to neighborhood finally makes peace with human who's been eyeing him for months

Scardy cat? Or just a neighborhood grey cat? 

The person here first met this little guy at the end of September 2025. He tells Reddit's r/CatDistributionSystem that on the day he got his keys to his new house he saw this grey cat jumping onto the roof. He assumed it was the neighbor's cat passing by. Over time, he noticed the cat has been showing up in the backyard almost every single day, just happily chilling there as if it was his own. The person also assumed the cat was a stray because his coat was matted and rough, and he sometimes looked quite dirty. He also noticed how weary of people the cat was, and it always went on hyperalert mode when someone came up to it. 

Although the cat was clearly skittish, they made progress together. He's in Melbourne, and the winter weather is here, which means the cat is less comfortable outside. He left some food for the cat to see if he would eat it. Then he got home from work and noticed the bowl was completely empty! He checked the security footage and was the little grey thing. He started leaving food every single day. Then he chose to kick things into action: he saw the grey thing hiding in darkness quietly watching him through the window while he did the dishes. He turned on the backyard lights and prepared some food and water. He went back inside and closed the window. The cat slowly approached the bowl, and dug in, the human sat about a foot away and watched, staying low and trying not to scare the grey. When the cat was done, the two just stared at each other. For those who may not know, this is an act of trust building in the cat world. They were really having a moment when suddenly the neighbor blasts music, but the human knows the two have made progress, and the cat probably feels more welcome in the neighborhood now. Hopefully one day he'll be posting that the cat is officially his! 

He even made a DIY Styrofoam bed and shelter for the grey thing. He's just happy the cat went from bolting every time to staying and spending time together.