With wildfires continuing to burn throughout Los Angeles where the Rams were slated to take on the Minnesota Vikings Jan. 13, Kelly found herself boarding a flight bound for Arizona with Matthew's teammates and their families mere hours after an exhausting hospital stay.
"There was a huge guilt factor to me going, 'Should we be on this plane right now because of everyone surrounding us and everyone who has to play this game?'" she acknowledged on the Jan. 15 episode of her podcast, The Morning After.
But when she asked the other Rams family members for their take, naturally, they held the line. "They were like, 'Get your ass on that plane. We all need to be together,'" Kelly recounted. “That was such an incredible thing for me to hear."
Not that she got to spend much of the 27-9 victory huddled up with the rest of the squad. "I was in the bathroom with Hunter most of the game," she shared. "So I did not see a lot of it."
"This girl," the 35-year-old later shared in an Instagram Story. "In the middle of her pukes in the bathroom, ‘Mommy, are we still winning?'"
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In a word, yes.
Nearly two decades after the University of Georgia cheerleader connected with the star QB over games of pick-up basketball they're still winning, both literally (the Rams advanced to the NFL Divisonal Round, where they'll face the Philadelphia Eagles Jan. 19) and figuratively, Kelly well aware just how much she's scored.
"Matthew is such a calming force in my life," she shared in an exclusive interivew with E! News last August, detailing how their opposites attract vibe just works. "I am very high strung. I feel like I have a lot of stress that I carry, and he just settles me."
A devoted teammate both on and off the gridiron, "He's such an incredible man in so many ways," continued Kelly, who recently wrapped her Cleat Chaser tour with podcast cohost Hank Winchester. "I feel like people think he's perfect, he's not perfect. But he always puts my daughters and myself first. If we all asked him to retire, he would do it. He shows up for me, but he shows, most importantly, my daughters what they should aspire to be with when they're older."
She, in turn, provides Matthew with that proverbial nudge toward the end zone.
When he debated decamping to sunnier climes—and a shot at a Super Bowl ring—after 12 seasons with the Detroit Lions, Kelly reflected, "He was so grateful for me just being like, 'If you want to chance it somewhere else, I will follow you—your girls and I got you.'"
And though he enjoyed immediate success, hoisting the Vince Lombardi Trophy in 2022 after his first season with the Rams, she added, "I give him that push that he might need, and to realize he's more than a football player, because I feel like sometimes they get lost in that too."
Kelly, however, doesn't need to be reminded that her husband of nearly nine years is her MVP (as in most valuable partner).
And, yes, she acknowledged, "This is a job for them and it's an amazing job. They get paid ridiculous, right? We all know that."
But Matthew's $160 million four-year contract isn't worth more than the life they've been building since 2006.
"At the end of the day, I want my husband to be who he was when I met him and married him after he's done and helping me raise these girls," she explained of feeling herself full body clench each time Matthew is sacked. "Body parts I can handle, I'm like, 'Okay, well, you broke something, whatever. We'll figure it out.' I worry about the head, because it's the one people push through and they shouldn't."
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Because for all the renewed focus on concussion protocol and preventing brain injuries, a player is going to take more hits to the head "the longer they play," said Kelly. And with her husband—2009's top draft pick—set to wrap his 16th season in the league, "That is very heavy on my heart every time I go to the game. It's part of the reason why I get so nervous. I just want him to be healthy."
And the rest of their squad is also aware of the game's Xs and Os.
Her twins, in particular, "Have really started to notice when Daddy's slow to get up after getting hit," Kelly added, noting that one of them "asked last year if he had to play again because he'd gotten hit a bunch one game. That really sat with him."
In those moments, she does her best to call an audible. "You have to tell your kids, 'He's fine, he's fine,'" said Kelly, "but, yet, you don't know. It's just something that you deal with."
Which is why her game plan during the playoffs is to remind her husband that throwing the ball away is always an option.
"It's something I remind him of," she shared, "just to do your best to stay healthy and run as fast as you can."
She would much prefer he heave it into the stands whenever a defensive lineman starts bearing down on him, "But he's also a gamer," Kelly said. "He wants to be in there and play to his ability. So there's definitely a balance there."
One that involves her holding her breath for basically the rest of their lives.
"I will worry about that probably until the day we die, because those symptoms can be later on," she admitted of keeping an eye out for signs of brain trauma. "And so it'll always be on my heart."
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That doesn't mean she's not eager to cheer No. 9 onto another potential Super Bowl victory. But at the end of the day their life together is the real prize.
"I want him to be the same guy, to raise these daughters and to grow old with," Kelly explained. "Because this is just so short in our life. We have a whole life after the NFL."
For now, though, she'll continue being her husband's most devoted fan, even when that means dragging four sick kids some 400 miles away to play cheerleader.
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