'He responded by saying that he would like to end the friendship': Cat owner stands up his cat-sitter for 20 minutes in favor of going to a restaurant, then acts like the victim when the sitter decides to cancel

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  "[Am I wrong] for cancelling cat sitting last minute after being stood up?"

  

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• No, you are not wrong for placing a boundary and sticking to it. You're not wrong for cancelling the cat sitting. But we have to say that this whole friendship comes across as strange and forced to us. Probably should not have agreed to cat sit for someone that you have had drama with before in the first place. Either way, we are not surprised that this friendship ended. 

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• Some people are just not meant to be long-term friends, and that is okay. It's not worth the heartache, in this situation, to keep fighting for a relationship that not working. 

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