Can't keep a habit? This comic shares a proven formula to make it stick

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Have you ever accidentally broken a good habit? Like, you forgot one time to do yoga, and somehow it never happened again?

Suddenly, a behavior you spent weeks working on is just wiped out. You did everything right — so what went wrong?

For a habit to stick, you need to do more than just repeat it, says behavioral scientist BJ Fogg, founder of Stanford's Behavior Design Lab. You need motivation, the ability to do the action and a prompt to do it. "When those three things come together, the behavior happens."

Fogg shares insights based on the Tiny Habits method, a research-backed approach he developed in 2007 on how to create lasting change.

This comic was drawn by the cartoonist Vreni Stollberger, based on writing by Mika Ellison and reporting by Marielle Segarra.

 ahhh this feels great!>>

But when I left that job for freelance work in 2018, I also left my yoga habit. 
<< ILLO of my yoga mat in a corner covered in spider webs>>

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Every year I make a promise to get back into it, and every year I fail. What gives? 
<< ILLO Me, looking at my planner with the goal “DO MORE YOGA” circled and underlined: I know stretching will help my back and I actually *like* doing it. So why can’t I keep it up?! >>
 
For a habit to stick, you need more than just the will to do it. 
<<ILLO of me staring longingly at my couch. “i really want to do this. I do. But I also want to zonk on the couch. Maybe tomorrow!”>>

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 “Okay, so how do I restart my yoga habit?” >>

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 “Okay, so how do I restart my yoga habit?” >>

If a task is easy, people tend to have higher motivation — and ability — to do it.

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Instead of “flossing your teeth,” try flossing a tooth
Instead of “reading more,” try reading one page 
instead of “doing yoga,” try doing one stretch 
<<a drawing of me coming to this conclusion>>

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 I make coffee every day. Maybe while I'm waiting for it to brew, I can touch my toes for a morning stretch!>>

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 “It's not repetition that creates habits. It's emotion. The stronger you can feel a positive emotion as you do the habit, the faster the habit wires into your life.” >>

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 “Once I've done my one stretch, as little as they are, I get to celebrate with my big mug of coffee and the satisfaction of knowing I did something for myself, before I even had caffeine!”>>

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Soon enough, your actions will start to feel like a habit.

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Now I start my day with coffee and yoga, who knows what other new habits I could tackle!

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Vreni Stollberger is a cartoonist based in Queens, N.Y., who loves using comics to break down complex topics, from policy and science to history and culture.

The podcast episode was produced by Sylvie Douglis. The comic was edited by Malaka Gharib. The visual editor is CJ Riculan. We'd love to hear from you. Email us at [email protected]. Listen to Life Kit on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, or sign up for our newsletter.

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